Thinking

One of my cousin called me asking for advise. He is around 30 and he loves a north Indian girl in office. He wants to marry her. His parents won't allow because the girl is too young. She is 21. Their concern is that she is too impressionable. Once she grows up, she will regret marrying someone old.

This example had me thinking. Isn't this exactly what happened with me and Atchaya? She was 22 when we met. She is 25 now. I was 30 then and is 33 now. Now she must be thinking of me as a mistake done during her impressionable youth. Now she is matured. Now, she will only think about me due to regret of breaking my life. So, if she thinks I have moved on, then she should be able to live her life too.

Only escape from the cycle we both are stuck is me moving on and marrying someone. Else let Atchaya think so. Now waiting for her to come back is a futile effort. If She had to come, she would have already. Now, the conclusion is the same as above.

To releasing people.